Wednesday, April 2, 2014

My "Best Friends"

 Who DOESN'T have a best friend? Raise your hand! 

Oh, no one?
Seriously?
okay.
So everybody has a best friend right?
I guess we're all set up now.

Sooo, what is a bestfriend?

A best friend is someone whom you can talk to about anything ang everything under the sun, or the moon,.
Someone whom you can share your secrets to, and knows almost everything about you.
Someone who would laugh at your dryest jokes,
Someone who treats you like a brother or sister,
someone you can be with every single day without being bored,
Someone who's content just by having you,
Someone who feels incomplete and lonely when you're not around,
Someone who feels like "another you"


I could go on and on and on.
BUT its just now that I realize that I don't have a permanent best friend, like a super best friend. Or do I have? Maybe I do, I dunno. Well, I have HAD multiple best friends before. (Seriously) I had a lot of them.
I don't know what's gotten into me but I'm pretty sure I am going to regret this. simply because I HAD  a lot of so called best friends.

Let me start with the first best friend that I can remember.
Let's just call her Si. 
Si and I have been classmates since well, kinder I guess?
Si have a fair complection, which makes me look ever darker when I'm with her.She's also chubby. Which makes her cute. :)
Her family has Spanish blood if I'm not mistaken.
She's really cute. :) Kawaii no desu!
She lives an hour or so away from our school so she always have like two bags of frozen water bottles. Plus a small jug. (you can imagine how thirsty she was)
And she and I loved anime. 
And I remember, Si and I used to love the anime UFO BABY and would talk about it a lot.
We loved the idea of having a baby with the ability to fly whenever he wants and of course the HUGE TALKING CAT. Plus the adventures were really fun and the series shows the value of a family. And teen love. and romance. And responsibilities.

'Ma ta a ni na ne,
mutsi tu du da roooo.!
Ta ne na no, te ne mutsi tu da rooo...'

That was our friendship song adapted from the anime.. Don't judge.

But unfortunately, for some reasons, I had to move to the city and live with my grandparents. It was heartbreaking because i had to leave all my friends whom i literally grew up with.
But of course it doesn't end there. i would always make sure I come home every vacation and still be with my friends .
Si and i would often exchange letters to each other each time I come home. We would give each oter multiple letters that waited for the day that i come home.
It was really touching. knowing that I'll recieve letters from my bestfriend and knowing that she took time and effort to write those letter. it means that even thou we're not together all the time, she still thninks of me. :)

But of course all good things must come to an end. We grew up and knda forgot to write letters.
And there was a time when I came back to the province to study there for a year. I thought that I could finally spend time with my best friend again and relieve all the happy memories! but I was wrong. When I came back, she already had another best friend. And I think they were closer than we were. (Ugh, heartbreaking!):

Okay! Moving on!

So my next best friend will be called Di,
I met her when i was in the 5th grade. We were classmates obviously.
Di is also light skinned but thin. Like really thin.
Her family has Japanese blood, she has two older brothers and lives a block away from my grandparent's house.  Yay!

She was a quiet person and of course an anime fan! :)
That time she was crazy about Chobits. And eventually, i became crazy about it as well.
Chobits was a story about a Persocom. like a person-computer.
Chii was the main persocom character and she has a twin sister, Elda?? I can't remember. but anyway, since the characters were twins, Di and I fantasized like all the time that we were twins, (which is completely crazy because I am dark skinned and chubby, and she was the opposite of that. soooo)
Moving on!
our friendship continued during the 6th grade, we weren't classmates anymore but we were only a room away from each other. Plus did i mention thet she lives only a block away from me?
So, they used to have a computer and a PS2 shop. After Chobits, we obsessed over the japanese game called Fatal Frame. which is really creepy and scary by the way.It was a story about twin sisters (again with the twins!) who got lost in the forest and found themselves in an old and abandoned place where a huge massacare took place, they lost each other and found out that they were reincarnations of the crazy lady who killed everybody. ANYWAY. it was a twisted story and creepy. like very, creepy.
Still, Di and i loved the game and we even played the third version of the game! (Nerds)


Our friendship lasted for about three years but unfortunately, this time, she was the one that had to move. And apparently, our friendship ended there. Just like that.

Now she's back we don't even talk anymore. :(

Also during the 6th grade in elementary, I met Iya, Beb, Jes and Cat.
to make the long story short, my family didn't like Iya's family that much so I kinda had to stay away from her. But we still talk up to this day.
Beb lost her way, like really lost, i wonder where she is right now,?
Jes? I have no contact with her since she switched schools.
And Cat? She's my neighbor! HAHA. But we don't talk anymore. Only when I buy from their store. 

NEXT!

The next bestfriend will be called El, hes gay. :)
don't get me wrong but gays are super fun to be with.
I met him during my third year in high shcool. I was in the choir back then, (yes, i do sing) and maybe that was the reason why we became friends. And at that time, Mariah Carey released her song 'Bye Bye' which was a beautiful song and El and I loveeeeed singing that song. El had a very deep voice, (imagine how hard it was for him to sing an MC song) :)

Our friendship lasted for about a year and a half.
Because,.... Well he did something stupid during the fourth year in highschool and he didn't tell me the truth leaving me looking like a fool protecting him. Seriously. Never do that to a friend!

Sooo,
Also during the third year in highschool, I met Jeth, Jeth has a really long name, like his mother couldn't decide which name to give him. :)
We happened to be seatmates. Jeth and I became really close, he started sharing his feelings, about a girl, or even about his family. We were just connecting! We loved taking pictures together, and singing together and talking and laughing. i could go on. Seriously.
Oh that kid always bring a face towel because he always have a runny nose.
I remember I gave him a scarf during our christmas party and since then, he never used a face towel again! Silly kid.
Also, I think it was his birthay when I gave him his first pair of boxer shorts.( He confessed that it was his first pair so..)
i even met his family, his cute little sister, his hot mom and his dad (amazing singer btw).
Jeth and I were more like brothers and sisters.
Our friendship didn't end but I think the best friend part did,
College happened and we went to different schools BUT you'd be happy to know (well I am) that when we see each other, we never forget to hug and catch up. :) Even for a few minutes.

ALSO. During the third year in highschool, I met Lei, Aira, Haira and Jae.
We called our group the PG's. (Patay Gutom) Because we were always eating!
our favorites were Tempura and Boy Bawang.
We joined txt clans and all that. Juna and Haira were sisters, but they weren't twins. they were always in a fight and they had their own language. (they were muslims btw)
Jae was a little gangster and Lei was just like me.

Sooo, I'll stop here. For now. because my fingers are tired and I had to reminisce.
WHY DID I EVEN DO THIS BEST FRIEND BLOG THING?!
(sigh.)

I'll post part two in a few days, sus. parang may gusto makaalam!
May nagbabasa ba neto? o ako lang? HAHAHA
k. bye.

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